How
Can I Avoid Domestic Violence?
The main reason that women become victims of the family terrorist (
domestic violence ) is that they have a belief that they must be in a
relationship with the opposit sex. Their personal values tell
them that they have no value if they are alone. This is also
a
factor that affects the victim's desire to exit the domestic violent
abusive relationship.
The solution and the most reliable method to avoid abuse is to have
good self esteem, wisdom and discernment gained through education,
knowing that God loves you and to realize that you are OK by
yourself. Therefore, you can make a decision that you might
desire a companion but don't necessarily need a companion.
Through preparing to protect yourself from the danger of an abusive
relationship you are aware of warning signs such as these . . .
- A potential
suitor that moves swiftly in the courtship
- Controlling
behavior such as jealousy of others, tracking your every move, who you
spend your time with and things you do
- Recognizing
that an extreme ego could be a precursor to problems
- Small
isolating methods of the suitor, as they will increase
- Inappropriate
gifts that don't match the expected norms
This topic is addressed as well as many more in the book Family
Terror.
As a victim of domestic violence it is my opinion that no book
has
ever addressed domestic violence in as much detail. If
you or someone you know is trapped in domestic violence, click
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