Dealing With Your Family
& Friends
Concerning Domestic
Violence, Abuse
Or Family
Terror Against Women
Friends and family usually can just plain not understand the victim.
The victim is being injured by the abuser and will not leave
is
all the family and friends see. They see someone they love in
danger. To the family and friends of the victim this does not
make sense. You see, if you are not nice to an animal, it
will
not want to be near you. But their friend or family member
just
stays right there and is getting injured time and time again.
There is a truth
that family and
friends are not aware. The abuser has promised to harm the
victim's family and friends. The victim truly believes that
the
abuser will harm her loved ones as this promise has most likely been
part of the brainwashing that has been used on the victim.
For this
brainwashing to be ignored is not possible in the victim's mind.
This short
discussion alone should
illustrate the serious problem of the victim. This victim is
no
longer capable of knowing truth from lies where the abuser is
concerned. The abuser's brainwashing to the victim have been
reinforced with the pain of the injuries. If the abuser tells
her
something then the victim's survival depends on her accepting what she
is told.
To ever instill
hope in the victim's
mind will include undoing the brainwashing that could have been applied
for decades.
This is another
reason for swift
movement as a new relationship shows the warning signs of an abuser.
This topic is addressed as well as many more in the book Family
Terror.
As a victim of domestic violence it is my opinion that no book
has
ever addressed domestic violence in as much detail.
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