If you want to escape the torment of domestic violence you can.  Don't believe the self talk you do with yourself saying  "there is not a way for you to get out of your situation".  By making a call to law enforcement and telling them agressively "Please send help to take me some place safe as soon as possible for I am in fear for our lives". An officer should come right away and take you to a shelter or to a safe place for you to wait to be transported to a safe place.

          At any time you choose you have the ability to be removed from your situation.  You just need to want no more of the domestic violence and it can be over for you and your children.  You only have to decide that you want it to be over.

          Understand the adjustments you will have to make after you have been removed will take work on your part.  If you have children there should not be any choice but to get away from the violence.  For you to not see that your children are safe and away from the domestic violence makes you a criminal as well as the man doing the violent injuries to you and possibly your children.  But everything to make things better can be started with only a call for help.

         Every problem that you perceive as a reason that you cannot make this call for help is not valid.  If you adhere to these excuses that makes you an abuser of your children as well and there is no excuse for that at all.  You do not have an option available to you to not call and be removed from the violence.  You must make the call.  This topic is addressed as well as many more in the book Family Terror.  As a victim of domestic violence it is my opinion that no book has ever addressed domestic violence in as much detail. If you or someone you know is trapped in domestic violence, click here to order the book for information about avenues of solutions.    Order the Book 

 

          

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